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Decisiveness

The Choice Before You Two doors stand before you. One gleams with light, but beyond it lies a broken staircase. The cracks are visible, the gaps wide. You can see the danger—it’s right there, daring you to step forward. You know that if you take this path, you might fall. You might break. Yet, strangely, the light calls to you, as if blinding you from the risk ahead. The other door is wrapped in complete darkness. You can’t see what’s behind it. No sign of what awaits, no hint of where the path leads. It is unknown, uncertain, and unpredictable. Which do you choose? Before you answer, pause. Breathe. Think. Darkness does not always mean danger. Sometimes, it hides new beginnings. It forces you to move carefully, to rely on the light within rather than the light outside. If you choose the dark door, you might struggle at first, unsure of where to place your next step. But if you trust yourself, if you let your instincts guide you, a path might reveal itself—one that was never visible be...

Working Remotely

We have entered an era where patience is more essential than ever. But why is that? Right now, many of you are working from home. On the surface, that might seem easier—but is it really? Time to compare... What do you miss? Waking up early, getting ready, meeting new people daily, socializing, and making real-life connections? Maybe you even miss the structured, fast-paced office environment that kept you motivated to work harder. And now? You sit in front of a screen from nine to five—or sometimes even twelve hours—stuck in the same posture, attending endless calls. It feels like you're being watched more closely, with stricter rules, just because you're behind a screen. It's hectic. But here's the good part: you're still showing your best work ethic. Even at home, you're focused, responsible, and giving it your all. It takes real strength to stay committed to office work when, just outside your door, others are enjoying their time. But remember—you're doin...

Real-Life Superheroes

Do you know someone truly selfless? Someone who, without a second thought, puts others before themselves? Maybe a superhero from a movie comes to mind. But do such people really exist in the real world? Right now, the world is facing a common enemy—COVID-19, among many other crises. We are all fighting in different ways. The numbers keep rising, lives are being lost, and yet, amidst it all, some individuals continue to fight—not for themselves, but for you. While you stay home, they step out. While you work remotely, they work tirelessly, far from their families, putting your safety above their own. They have made you their priority. They are out there for you—so stay home for them. It’s the least we can do. These are the real-life superheroes. I deeply appreciate the daily applause from people worldwide. These heroes need our support now more than ever. This is for the health workers, nurses, and doctors risking their lives. This is for the factory workers who quarantined themselves a...

Destiny

Life is like a road—sometimes smooth, sometimes winding, and at times, you hit a dead end. But what is a dead end, really? A place where all exits seem blocked? A moment when you can't see what lies ahead? We've all been there—stuck, uncertain, and unsure of what to do next. But maybe, just maybe, that dead end isn’t the final stop. Perhaps it's a sign to pause, to reflect, to wait and see what life has in store for you. It’s not about the shoes you wear; it’s about the steps you take. Why wait for a road to appear when you have the power to carve your own path? Destiny isn’t just about what’s written—it’s about how you shape it with your choices, your resilience, and your determination. Yes, you will stumble. You might take a wrong turn or even fall into a trap. But each misstep is a lesson, each setback a stepping stone. The key is to keep going, to keep learning, to keep shaping your journey. As William Jennings Bryan said, "Destiny is no matter of chance. It is a m...

Grief

Grief is a Journey, Not a Destination Grief never truly ends… but it transforms. It is a passage, not a place to remain. Grief does not signify weakness, nor does it reflect a lack of faith—it is simply the cost of love. If you have lost someone or something dear to you, if you are carrying the weight of deep sorrow, or if you are finding your way through it, know this: You are not alone. At first, everything freezes. Time stands still. The world feels unrecognizable—that is shock. Then, as life begins to move again, denial sets in. You may find yourself struggling to accept the loss, searching for ways to escape the reality of it. When escape no longer soothes the ache, frustration and anger may take over. You may feel lost, questioning why this had to happen. This can lead to bargaining, an attempt to rewrite the past, to change what cannot be changed. When those attempts fail, the weight of it all may settle in as depression, making the grief feel even heavier. But know this: Every ...

Apperance vs. Reality

"Don't judge a book by its cover," they say. But is that really true? A book’s cover is merely a surface, a glimpse of what lies within. You won’t truly know its worth—good or bad—until you turn each page, all the way to the end. The same applies to people. The world is filled with individuals shaped by unique experiences. Some wear their scars openly, while others hide behind carefully crafted facades. We cannot judge someone at first glance because we don’t know their story. Nor can we rely on assumptions—positive or negative—because appearances can be deceiving. The contrast between appearance and reality is a constant challenge. Some people radiate kindness because they have known suffering and choose to rise above it. Others wear masks of virtue, only to betray when least expected. True wisdom lies in discernment—seeing beyond illusions, recognizing authenticity, and understanding that not everything is as it seems. But how do we truly see what is real? It requires p...

Respect

The concept of reciprocal in mathematics is simple—we all know how it works. But let’s take a deeper look. Reciprocate 1 with 8, and you get 8 with 1. Reciprocate 1 with 1, and the value remains unchanged. Reciprocate 8 with 8, and the result is still 1. This principle mirrors how respect works in our lives. The more value you give, the more it returns to you. You earn respect by giving it. And the result? People around you begin to do things for you—not out of obligation, but out of love. Respect is a deeper form of admiration. If you want to receive it, first offer it—to others and to yourself. "Respect is one of the greatest expressions of love." — Miguel Angel Ruiz If you love, show care. And if you care, show respect.

Tolerance

"Tolerance isn't about not having beliefs.It's how your beliefs lead you to treat people who disagree with you." Timothy Keller Are you educated? Don't answer it too early, read below... After reading this, you may do that... There is a famous story of a man of good virtues. He used to pass a place daily and an old lady threw rubbish in his way. The man never said a word, until one day...when he did not find that rubbish on his way. He asked about that old lady to people nearby. He was told that she was sick. He went to his house, gave her some water and medicines. Asked her to rest, did her house chores. He didn't take revenge. Just put yourself in that scenario... How would have you handled it? It's easy... We all apply the theory of, "equal and opposite reaction to an action". We don't "Tolerate" the ones against us. We hit them with equal or greater force, rather than teaching a moral lesson. Now you answer the very f...

Consience

"Let your conscience always be your guide." — Jiminy Cricket We all have both a good and a bad side, and our actions often reflect how we feel. When we feel good, we do good. When we feel bad, we may act in ways we later regret. There's nothing unusual about this—we're human, and making mistakes is a natural part of life. But do you know when things truly go wrong? It’s when you stop listening to your inner voice. That voice may seem small, almost insignificant, yet it holds the greatest power over your life. What do we often do instead? We focus on the noise around us—the voices of others, the energy in our surroundings. Meanwhile, that quiet inner voice warns us: "Don’t do it. Stay away from it." Yet, as humans, we tend to ignore it. We act based on external influences rather than the wisdom within. This conscience is within all of us, but only a few truly listen to it. My advice? Follow your inner voice. Follow your conscience. Those who do either find t...

Bias: A Barrier to Justice and Unity – An Islamic Perspective

Imagine this: You are blindfolded and given two options. One hand holds an apple, the other holds an apple with a slice of orange. Without seeing, you instinctively choose the single apple. Why? Because your mind associates familiarity with safety and difference with discomfort. This is how bias operates. It is subtle, ingrained, and often goes unnoticed. Yet, in Islam, bias is a veil over the heart that leads to injustice. It creates division where Allah commands unity, and it fosters arrogance where humility should reside. Islam’s Stand Against Bias Allah ï·» commands absolute justice, regardless of personal feelings, background, or relationships: “O you who have believed, be persistently standing firm for Allah, witnesses in justice, and do not let the hatred of a people prevent you from being just. Be just; that is nearer to righteousness.” (Surah Al-Ma'idah 5:8) This verse highlights a fundamental truth: Bias, whether based on race, gender, status, or culture, distorts justice. ...

Simplicity

The Secret to Brilliance? Simplicity. Do you want to know the secret to true brilliance? It’s astonishingly simple—yet we often make it the most difficult thing of all. Let’s try a quick experiment. Touch your right ear. What did you do? Naturally, you used your right hand. Why? Because it was the simplest, most efficient way. You didn’t complicate it. You instinctively chose simplicity over complexity. In that moment, you chose brilliance over absurdity. Yet in life, we often do the opposite. We overthink, overcomplicate, and take the harder route—even when an easier, more elegant solution is right in front of us. Sophistication isn’t about excess or complication. True sophistication lies in simplicity. Beauty lies in simplicity. And when you approach life with clarity and ease, everything becomes more effortless. So, embrace the simple. Choose brilliance. Be sophisticated in the most natural way. Because in the end, simplicity is the ultimate sophistication.

Forgiveness

Breaking the Chains of Anger: The Power of Forgiveness Someone wronged you. At the time, you didn’t react. But later, their actions haunt your thoughts. You replay the moment, wondering—Why did they do it? How could they? It feels like you’re trapped, bound by invisible chains. And the more you dwell on it, the tighter the grip. This is the prison of resentment—rage feeding on itself, growing stronger, keeping you stuck. Want to break free? Want to shatter those chains? Start forgiving. It’s the most powerful “revenge.” Not for them—but for you. Your mind needs peace. It’s easier said than done, but once you truly forgive, you set yourself free. "To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you." — Lewis B. Smedes Forgiveness is a prison break—an escape from the endless loop of overthinking. But it’s not just about forgiving others. Learn to forgive yourself—for mistakes you didn’t make, for those you never meant to, and even for the ones you did. Y...

Kindness

The Profound Nature of Kindness: A Lesson from the Bees Have you ever observed bees—their ceaseless toil, their unwavering commitment to the hive? Each bee plays its part in harmony, tirelessly working to create honey. But for whom? Is it solely for themselves? Or do we, too, reap the sweetness of their labor? And in return, what do we offer them? Perhaps nothing at all. This, in essence, is the nature of kindness. True kindness is not measured by the worthiness of its recipient, nor does it seek recompense. It is a gift freely given—like the bees, who produce honey without expectation. But who truly benefits from kindness? What is its unseen reward? Consider the simplest act: a smile. When you smile at another, what unfolds? A smile is returned. Yet pause for a moment—who smiled first? You did. Kindness is not just an offering to the world; it is a transformation within. Whether it is reciprocated or not, you have already cultivated it in your soul. Like the bees, who first build thei...

Freedom vs Free Will

Look at the image above. What do you see? At first glance, it’s obvious—two birds flying away from a cage they were once locked in. But I see it in two ways: The First Perspective The birds were trapped in the cage until someone—perhaps their owner—opened the door, setting them free. Now, they can go wherever they wish, carried by the wind. The sky is vast and open, but even it has limits. Birds, like all creatures, have their own range; their flight is not infinite. Even freedom comes with boundaries. The Second Perspective Perhaps the cage was never locked—its door left open all along. The birds had a choice: to stay, to leave, or to return after exploring. The decision was entirely theirs. What’s Common in Both? Freedom and Free Will. The First Perspective: Freedom Misunderstood Society creates cages—rules, expectations, restrictions. When someone is confined for too long, sudden freedom can feel overwhelming. Like the birds carried by the wind, we may mistake absolute freedom as h...

Trust

You are writing on a piece of paper, and something goes wrong. What do you do...? Either you crumble it or tear it into pieces. You try to straighten up the paper, you try to mend the page with Scotch tape. But does it return to its former position? No! Trust is just like that... When trust is broken, no matter how hard you try to restore it, it never truly goes back to its original state. The creases remain, the scars of betrayal linger, and the bond that once existed weakens. Why? Because of the "Loss of Faith" you place in others. "Once gone is gone forever." — Anonymous Don’t break anyone’s trust... How do you do that? By maintaining it! How do you maintain it? By ensuring your actions align with your words. Trust is not built in a day, but it can be destroyed in an instant. It thrives on the consistency of actions and the fulfillment of promises. It is about showing up, standing by your word, and being reliable—even when no one is watching. A trusted person is ...

Experience

The Exam of Life Aayan sat in the silent examination hall, his heart pounding as he flipped through the pages of his test. He had prepared for this moment—late-night study sessions, countless practice problems, and pages filled with notes. But as he read the first question, doubt crept into his mind. The clock ticked. Minutes turned into an hour. He wrote what he could, second-guessing every answer. When time was up, he handed in his paper with a mix of relief and uncertainty. Days later, the results were out. Aayan held his breath as he scrolled down the list. His name was there, but beside it was a dreaded letter—"F". Failure. His chest tightened. Had all his effort been for nothing? Had he not studied hard enough? A wave of frustration and disappointment crashed over him. He wanted to give up. To hide away and never face another test again. But then, something changed. His professor’s words echoed in his mind: "An exam is not just a test of knowledge; it’s a test of g...

MENTORS

Falling down a cliff? Drowning in water? Stuck in quicksand? Do you feel like that...? You need a hand to pull you out! Sometimes, in life, you need things that would help you grow. You need to know, what's good for you and what's bad. You need to know, how to come out of a problematic situation. And, you may need help if stuck somewhere... There's nothing bad in asking for suggestions or advice . Because, there comes a time in life that you are unable to figure out things properly for yourself. That's actually the time, when you can't shape your confusions. "The key to being a good mentor is to help people become more of who they already are - not to make them more like you." Suze Orman The people who help you get through it in such times, are people who make a total difference in your life. They let you see the unseen . They shape your personality . They bring out the best in you . They mend what's broken in you. They find what was lost...

Leadership

Right now, what do we need most to cope with this situation? This global enemy is consuming us all—if not by directly affecting our health, then by infiltrating our minds with fear and uncertainty. Many of you are working from home, studying from home, and in some places, even grocery shopping from home. The news delivers daily updates—or should I say, a daily mental dose. Staying informed isn’t wrong, but the aftereffects of constant exposure are concerning. Limit your news intake. Yes, it tells you how fast the crisis is spreading, its economic impact, and supply shortages. But in the end, it also gives precautions—measures to balance the fear it instills. And when we're not watching the news, what do we discuss? Cleaning our homes? Stockpiling food? How often do we talk about motivation? About hope? So, I ask again—what do we need most right now? What should we do? What role should each of us play? The answer is simple. We need leaders in every household—not just to ensure clea...