Dignity

"Be modest" ,"Be humble", "Be kind"

We hear these words often, but how often do we reflect on what they truly mean? What does it feel like to embody modesty, humility, and kindness? More importantly, how do they connect to the deeper concept of dignity?

Success and the Test of Humility

Think about every moment you’ve experienced pride—when you achieved something great, when people acknowledged your efforts, when victory felt like a crown on your head. It’s good to be proud, and it’s good to be acknowledged. Accomplishments deserve recognition.

But the real question is:

Did your success make you look down on others, or did it ground you?
Did pride turn into arrogance, or did it strengthen your humility?
Were you blinded by victory, or did you remain balanced?

If at any point your pride overpowered humility, don’t be too harsh on yourself. It’s human nature to feel thrilled by success. But what’s not okay is allowing that feeling to grow unchecked—when pride swells beyond control, it begins to erode dignity.

Grace: The Crown of True Dignity

James Russell Lowell once said, "Humbleness is always grace; always dignity."

True dignity does not come from titles, applause, or external validation—it comes from within. It is built on grace, the ability to carry oneself with humility even in moments of greatness.

The next time you achieve something, accept the recognition, feel the pride—but let grace be your companion. Success should refine you, not define you.

And grace?

It is your beauty. It is what makes dignity shine from within. It is not just something you possess—it is something you wear.

So, wear it with honor. Walk with it. Let it be the signature

Don't let your shadow overrule you.

Comments

Stevie said…

For me being humble is to stop judging, how often do we judge others.every time I point the finger at someone 3 point back at me. Try it,
Be gracious in defeat even more so in victory. Be careful who you step on when on the way up, as you will meet the same people on the way down. A good lesson in practising humility.. do someone a good turn today, and don't get found out. Tell no one.live and let live. We only have control over ourselves in my humble opinion.

9 March 2020 at 10:07

Deeplife said…

I second your opinion with addition to, c if we look ourselves first deeply,what is wrong in us rather than what is wrong with them...that's where our humility and humbleness starts off, ending up in not being judgmental.

9 March 2020 at 18:21

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