Deeplife

The Law of Familiarity states that the more we are exposed to something, the more we tend to take it for granted. It applies to people, relationships, opportunities, and even blessings in life. This principle explains why we often stop appreciating what is constantly available to us and seek novelty instead. Does It Really Work? Yes, the Law of Familiarity is a well-observed psychological phenomenon. Studies in psychology, particularly in relationship dynamics and human behavior, suggest that people tend to overlook the value of things they see or experience frequently. This is why long-term relationships, stable careers, and even good health can sometimes feel "ordinary" until they are lost or threatened. However, you can counteract this effect by practicing intentional gratitude and mindfulness: Regularly reflect on the good in your life. Consciously appreciate the people and things that support you. Shift your focus from seeking excitement elsewhere to deepening your conne...

 Look into a mirror. What do you see? A reflection of candles, their light multiplying, brightening the space. But what’s truly happening? The original candle spreads its energy, reducing the mist on the mirror, making things clearer. The reflected candles amplify the light, but only because they are close enough to catch and reflect it. This is the essence of proximity. If the original candle represents a person whose purpose is to guide others, their light only benefits those who willingly come close. Likewise, if you seek enlightenment, you must position yourself near those who have already found it. Growth happens in the right environment—among the right people. Ken Coleman puts it simply: "To do what I want to do, I have to be around people who are doing it and in the places where it’s happening." Why does proximity matter? Because we naturally value what we engage with and connect deeply with those who share our vision. The more you surround yourself with people who ins...