Disappointment



Just imagine... You are planting a seed, watering it daily. Doing everything so it may grow... But, it fails to sprout anyhow.

You put yourself in a state of self blame... Did you miss on something? Or...did anything less, to make it grow?
Your inner voice will tell you...
"NO... You did everything you could."
But, again...
What went wrong?

Let's peek inside human nature for that..." The best way to avoid Dissappointment is to not expect anything from anyone."

We are told that, "not to expect" theory.But,it doesn't works that way...
After putting much effort in something, we as humans, tend to "expect" more of something which we give.
Yes, "Expectations"! We get wrong over here. It's not bad to expect. We are humans. And, we at some point, can't stop expectations, it's natural.
We start expecting alot and when it's not met, your mind plays with you...

It leaves you with the questions...
Why in first place, you did that? What made you do something less than your own worth?
And there comes the feeling of "Dissappointment".

That doesn't mean you should stop there... Take it as an opportunity for your passion. Disappointment showed you, what it is that you are passionate for? Once you know, you go after it, and grow. And growing means, you are getting stronger.
Don't let today's disappointment cast a shadow on tomorrow's dream.

Don't stop expecting... That's not the way. Just learn to deal with the after effects. Make them leave a positive impact on you...




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