Family


You are four or five people sitting in a living room or dinning area... Most probably, two or three of you are quite busy looking down at your gadgets, that you don't know what the remaining people in the room are feeling or talking about.

Look up... Observe... What do you see?

Maybe your father wants to have a good experience of his life to share with you,so you might learn. Maybe it's your mother,she might be tired and want to have a quality time with you.

Maybe it's your husband or your wife, just want your affection.

Possibly, it's your children or grandchildren, niece or nephew; who want to just play with you.

Or a sibling or a cousin? Who wants to tell you something which is really important to him/her.

It's a scene, that, not only depicts your living room - but also a scene from your busy and fast running lifestyle. 

It's not important that you sit in a living or dinning room together, it's not important that you excuse yourself by saying you are busy. What's important is the quality you put in that time not it's quantity. What's important is the body language and gestures you give rather than words you deliver.

Even a second or a minute you spend to share thoughts, to appreciate, to celebrate, to play is far more better than hours sitting just looking at each other's face or ending up in pointless arguments or even fights. 

It's, what they say quality time. When your gestures and body language speaks up and confirm your words. 

It's important to spend time with yourself, it's important to give and receive the space an individual wants, it's important to work, it's important to socialize, it's important to go out or entertain yourself... everything develops a better you.

But, take out time which you can spend with your family in a best way. That's important too. Family is a support that will help you reach your goals and a compass for your guidance. Family is important.

"In family, love is the oil that erases friction, the cement, that binds closer together, and the music that brings harmony." Fredrich Nietzsche






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