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The Power of Empathy

A and B had been talking for a while. At first, they were just exchanging words, but soon, something deeper happened—they started understanding each other. Their conversation shifted from casual chatter to sharing what was truly going on in their lives. A opened up about their struggles, and after some time, B did the same.

What is it that brings two people closer in mere minutes? They don’t have common backgrounds or shared experiences. Yet, they listen to each other, acknowledge their differences with respect, and truly pay attention.

What is that?

It’s called care.

But how do you show that you care? How do you know if someone else cares?

Here’s how it works:

When someone is speaking, you listen—not just with your ears, but with your heart. You don’t just hear their words; you feel their emotions as if they were your own. You put yourself in their shoes and, with sincerity, offer the best support you can. That is how you show you care.

And when you share your own struggles and receive the same level of understanding in return, that’s how you know you are cared for.

This is the essence of being an empath. Either you are one, or you are lucky enough to have one in your life.

Empaths don’t dismiss pain or ignore struggles. They don’t let others face their hardships alone. They are highly sensitive, natural healers—never judging, never misleading. They seek to understand both sides of a story, offering comfort without the need for immediate solutions.

As John Medina beautifully puts it:

“Empathy works so well because it does not require a solution. It requires only understanding.”

So let’s start by understanding each other. Do you know how it begins?

Feel the emotions.




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